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The Tennis Partner is a memoir about author Abraham Verghese’s friendship with medical student David Smith. The main source of conflict in Abraham’s relationship with David, as well as David’s other relationships, is his cocaine addiction. Substance addiction, and the nature of the disease, are thus one of the book’s central threads.
The prevalent theory in the US is that addiction is a disease, but unlike purely physiological ones, it is a disease that includes a behavioral component. Withdrawal symptoms, increased tolerance to the drug, and the physiological effects of the drug on the mind and body compel the user to keep using. However, it is the actions of the user that activate the addiction and prolong the illness. Thus, addiction treatment involves an important balance between objectivity and empathy. Dr. Talbott embodies this in the Prologue of the book when he reminds David that he has a disease, and therefore he can feel guilt for his actions, but he ought not to feel shame.
Still, as with any illness, physical or mental, management becomes difficult if the patient does not recognize the need for treatment or follow through with treatment protocols as directed. So, too, is the case with addiction. In David’s case, he initially complies with the steps needed to get better, but eventually, as pressures in his life compound, he begins to drift away from them. He gets trapped in a cycle where his disease worsens his non-compliance, which worsens his disease, and his story eventually ends in tragedy.
Abraham is not new to substance addiction. He has seen it numerous times before through his work in internal medicine and has treated patients like Gato and Angelina Cortez for secondary illnesses that are a result of intravenous drug use. However, David is the first Abraham is close to who is battling addiction, and the memoir reflects his emotional experience observing the progress of the disease, not as a doctor but as a loved one.
David is a source of comfort and companionship to Abraham at a difficult time in the latter’s life. Abraham does not foresee a relapse coming partly because Abraham’s perception is clouded by their friendship, but also because it takes Abraham a while to understand that David’s addiction is an illness. This is why he does not immediately report David the first time David relapses, and why Abraham feels personally hurt and betrayed by David’s actions. The others in David’s life—the doctor supervising him, Dr. Lou Binder; his sponsor, Jim; and even Gloria, to some extent—have a more dispassionate view of the situation. Dr. Binder and Dr. Talbott, in particular, understand addiction to be a disease and treat it accordingly. This is why Dr. Binder gives David multiple chances to continue his medical education despite his relapses. Even after David runs away the last time, Dr. Binder’s efforts are concentrated on bringing David in for a detox, rather than punishing David or washing his hands off the young man.
An important aspect of the experts’ approach, however, is not absolving David of all accountability for his actions, either. Each time David returns to Texas Tech, there are stricter protocols in place that he needs to comply with if he is to keep his seat. The urine screenings, multiple meetings, and check-ins with his sponsor are not meant to punish David but to manage his illness; the loss of his emergency medicine residency is more a preventive measure than a punitive one. Nevertheless, these steps ensure that David experiences consequences for his actions while trying to ensure that he stays clean.
A central theme in the book that is explored through Abraham and David’s friendship as well as their individual stories is the journey of navigating loneliness and dealing with conflict in relationships. While one of the men moves through this experience successfully, the other does not.
Abraham and David meet at a time of turbulence in the former’s life. This, among other things, causes Abraham to relate deeply with David, especially as he learns more about David’s life and recognizes a similar loneliness. Playing tennis has already served as a source of comfort and order in Abraham’s life growing up. When he discovers a fellow aficionado in David, it only cements Abraham’s affection for him and brings them closer together. However, Abraham’s friendship with David clouds the former’s perception of his tennis partner, and he misperceives the parallels between his own life and David’s. They do have shared circumstances of feeling lonely and isolated, and both are reserved men who are not entirely forthcoming about their thoughts and feelings, making it difficult for them to address conflict effectively. However, Abraham’s current loneliness is a function of both choice and immediate context. He has relocated to a new city for a new job and is undergoing a divorce. Moving out to a small apartment with barely anything is, however, Abraham’s choice, as is his lack of socialization with other men at the tennis club.
David’s isolation runs deeper and is a function of his life experiences and temperament. He has been in El Paso for some time but has seen batch mates move on, as he was forced to miss and repeat time at the university because of his addiction. Most people also know David’s history with addiction, and view him with suspicion. Thus, David does not have a fresh slate in El Paso, unlike Abraham. Furthermore, Abraham still has his family, especially his sons, to anchor him, and things with his ex-wife are amicable. David, on the other hand, has no family support. His troubled family of origin has made it difficult for him to confront conflict in his relationships, and as a result, he uses maladaptive coping mechanisms such as sex and infidelity to deal with difficult emotions such as conflict and loneliness. He lacks Abraham’s introspectiveness and ability to reflect on his own part in contributing to this kind of conflict in his life. The result is that David’s loneliness deepens, triggering a cycle that worsens his disease.
Abraham, thus, is eventually able to successfully navigate the conflict in his relationships and emerge from the loneliness and isolation he feels, while David is not. Abraham opens up to and relies on the people in his life for support, and experiences joy in these relationships. Ironically, though David is himself a huge part of this support for Abraham, he is unable to help himself the same way. His addiction is both a factor in and a reason for this. The secrecy and dishonesty around his addiction introduces further conflict in all of David’s relationships, including his friendship with Abraham. The drug use itself only furthers the sense of loneliness and isolation David experiences. He is dragged further away from all manner of community until the tragic end of his short life.
Abraham and David’s friendship begins within the context of a tennis game, lending the book its name. This evolves into biweekly practice sessions that form an important ritual in both of their lives. Besides the tennis game, both men employ other rituals in their individual lives as well. In Abraham’s case, especially after he moves out into the apartment, the weekends with his sons are an important part of his week. Having his boys over in a space that is otherwise stark and dreary livens up his home, and their excitement helps Abraham feel more comfortable in the new space, too. David’s rituals, besides the tennis games, include regular NA and AA meetings and time spent with his girlfriends, first Gloria then Emily. These rituals are important to both Abraham and David, providing structure and order to their lives in times of change and conflict. For David, rituals are a key platform in the management of The Disease of Addiction.
While these rituals are anchoring for both David and Abraham, they also prove counter-productive over time. For instance, Abraham initially feels unmoored when his and David’s regular tennis sessions are disrupted by Gloria and Emily’s presences respectively. He even harbors some resentment towards the women for disrupting their ritual. His reaction to the disruption of their ritual signals that Abraham has become overly reliant on David and their game. In David’s case, all of his rituals lose their power to soothe over time because they are fundamentally flawed. David seeks comfort in romantic relationships, but conflicts in those relationships affect him deeply. Simultaneously, his persistent infidelity and dishonesty in relationships lead to increased conflict with his girlfriends. David eventually discovers that he has a sex addiction, which makes it ironic that he is chasing stability and a distraction from addiction through the very thing that fuels it. Similarly, David’s tennis game is affected by his mood, self-esteem, and attitude. This reflects how, unlike tennis having always been a stabilizing presence in Abraham’s life, the sport is associated with emotional highs and lows for David. The competitiveness and other attractions of professional tennis worked like a drug for David; he turned to cocaine to cope with the loss of this “drug” in his life, and now is looking to use tennis again as an escape from his actual substance addiction. The tragic irony is that rituals David has built to help him manage his addiction are so intertwined with it that they end up contributing to his relapse.
During David’s time away, Abraham is able to break out of old patterns and discard rituals that no longer serve him. This contributes to his success in eventually emerging unscathed from a troubling phase in his life. Moving out of his empty apartment into a permanent home symbolizes Abraham’s recognition of the ways he has relied on old habits to keep him from moving forward with his life. He is able to rebuild his rituals in more constructive forms, for instance by joining a tennis group at the club. For David, however, his do rituals have the same salutary effects, nor is he able to break out of old patterns when they no longer serve him. The rituals he becomes trapped in eventually prove harmful and debilitating because of how closely tied they are to his addiction.
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